If this sounds familiar, now is the time to stop pointing the finger of blame at others. “It’s not my fault, look at what so and so is doing,” is the mantra of the lower self. Their North Star is to never be seen to be the one who is responsible. This is their curse and their lock down; they will never create the life they want and will claim to be taken advantage of their entire lives. They will use drugs in an attempt to have the drugs be at fault, they will drive others away and fault them for leaving, they will curse money because of their lack of it, they will only trust other lower self behavior–all in the service of placing blame outside of themselves.
There is a way out of this cycle. If this type of person admits responsibility in their heart of hearts, the lower self will cease to have life, power or exist for long. What happens next is up to them. If they continue to identify with the lower self, they will fall into deeper self-destructive behaviors as a result of masking their new realization. Conversely, when they identify with the higher self that has prompted them to this understanding, remarkable transformation follows.
As mentioned, it is a relatively few number of people who decide to operate their lives from their higher selves. Give some thought to your Circle of Influence and see who fits that description from your perspective. Awareness gives you power. As each of us deserves to give one another the space to recognize our own causality in our own life, there will be those who are completely unwilling to look at what they are really causing. When you encounter those individuals it’s probably best you steer clear, because what that person is creating is a series of results you will want no part in. Additionally, you will find yourself being blamed.Personal development is our business and our life.
http://www.prosperyourmind.com http://blog.prosperyourmind.com In personal development we learn that “we all see and experience the world not as it is, but as we are”.