by Michael Berry on May 17, 2012
Adding order is the process of assembling all of the possibilities into a meaningful and useful form. Doing things in a certain order, for example, can be the difference between creating chaos or success. Certainly anyone who has followed a cooking recipe knows actions must be done in a particular order to bring about a delicious result! Bake the mix out of order and you will create a terrible mess. So refining and controlling the order is a factor in getting the result; it is crucial to whether your life recipe works or not.
Many times the situations you find yourself in will not have an obvious order for action. Confusion is the enemy of action. In these instances it can be helpful to think backward, starting from the end goal, to uncover what action steps are most likely to create the desired end result. Picture clearly the exact result you would like to have happen (your Destination), then think back, step by step, of the series of actions that need to take place from that result to your present reality.
by Michael Berry on May 16, 2012
Our personal development program is not your typical self-help program.
We take a stand for every individual. We know that you, right now, have what it takes to create the life you desire. A successful version of Your Mix exists right now and is easily accessible. From our experience we have found that individuals create their life experience based on what they believe. So if a person believes there is something wrong with them then that is exactly what they create. You are not broken, just perhaps lost or confused. This quickly begins to clear up as you align your existing patterns with new and on-target beliefs.
Life can be confusing, and in that confusion most people feel that they are unable to create some parts of their lives. In more extreme cases this confusion becomes low self-esteem and the belief that there is something inherently wrong with them. Much self-help reinforces this erroneous belief. Many self help gurus want to do your thinking for you and tell you what you need. This is ultimately destructive and only adds to your problems.
At this point I have to add this comment. Most all of these so called life coaches are not successful entrepreneurs. I know this because our company has interviewed hundreds of so called life coaches as a possible presenters at one of our conferences. You would be shocked to learn that some of the most well known personalities in personal development are struggling to even make a 6 figure income. (Income disclosure is one of our requirements.) Are you going to take advise from someone that has not walked the talk?
Even if such advice helps, needing others to think for you is not how you create an exceptional life. It keeps you tethered to the guru as a source for new information – which is exactly what they want but bad for you! Instead, our program assists you in learning to trust your own observations, gaining new distinctions about life, acting on higher self impulses, acting and reacting to what happens and Course Correcting your way to success. From the perspective of those who have embraced these principles it seems the masses are running around with their eyes pinched shut in a nervous panic trying to find someone who can steer them in the right direction. In reality this approach reinforces that the individual does not have the ability to correctly perceive the world in which they live. This is not what we consider to be self-help.
Rather, we endeavor to assist an individual in opening their eyes, seeing what is really happening in their life and then take simple and consistent actions to create a desired result. Once you are in control and know it, you can watch others do something and then do it yourself with very little practice. Your own creativity and intuition are your most valuable assets.
